This brings back a memory. I first got introduced to the taji form and practice a few years back- it changed my life hurrah and it was a limited introduction, to say the least.
I learned about push-hands to this extent- you were supposed to use the principles practiced in the form to unbalance yr. opponent by being as relaxed as possible, finding his center(of mass) and giving him a gentle shove. In light of recent exposure, thats no more taiji than is clog-dancing, but hell, its still a fascinating and subtle game to play with a partner.
so anyway, taiji was all the rage among my freaky, street-level freinds- and we began to try this thing out. predictably it was frustrating and usually devolved into knocking heads until the beer arrived.
one day, this kid turns up and wants to do 'push-hands', and he's nice and relaxed and quick and boom! he reaches down, grabs my leg and gives it a yank. i moved a step, and he says, 'i win!'
???? win? who said anything about winning? it just went downhill from there-he 'cheated' in every way and cared only about making my feet move. in retrospect, this guy had obviously been a part of something linked to this tournamant push-hands thing. a big fat waste of time.
anyway, that's my story.
Carl